Lot 57: A Pink Candle in the Wind

Readings by situation

Single

A pink candle flickers in the wind, like your feelings about someone being shaken by the opinions around you. Gossip and chatter may make you doubt your own intuition. Observe and feel for yourself instead of listening to rumors.

Advice: Before judging someone, take time to get to know them yourself rather than relying on what others say.

In a relationship

Your relationship is facing a few gusts from outside, perhaps gossip, family pressure, or work. Whether the candle stays lit depends on both of your sheltering hands. Trusting each other is the best way to shield the flame.

Advice: Agree with your partner that every issue will be raised directly with each other before listening to outsiders.

Secret crush

Your secret feelings are wavering because of all the chatter: some say go for it, others say do not. The lot reminds you this flame is yours, and only you know how warm it is. Do not let outside winds blow it out or fan it too high.

Advice: Keep your feelings private a little longer and share them with fewer people.

About an ex

Things with your ex may be getting buffeted by the opinions of friends and family. The lot advises you to shield the candle of your heart and listen to yourself first. Going back or letting go should be your decision, not the outside wind's.

Advice: For now, do not ask too many people for their opinions about your ex; think it over in quiet.

Marriage plans

Wedding plans are under some outside pressure, such as family opinions or comparisons with others. The candle of your love is still burning, but you need to shield it together. Stand on the same side, and every gust will pass.

Advice: Agree on your own position as a couple first, then present it together to both families.

AdviceTrusting each other is the best hand to shelter the candle.