Lot 32: Cold Wind at Winter's End

Readings by situation

Single

The cold wind of late winter chills the heart, and you may feel lonelier than usual. The bond is not ripe, so do not force it, but late winter is also when spring is very near. Keep yourself warm with the people who already love you.

Advice: Reach out this week to meet family or a close friend so your heart can be warmed.

In a relationship

Your relationship has cooled a little under many worries, like a bare branch that has not yet budded. This is not the time to blame each other, but to keep each other warm. Once things ease up, spring will return to your home.

Advice: Offer each other one small, warm gesture every day, like a hug or a cup of something warm.

Secret crush

The cold late-winter wind suggests your secret feelings are hard to have returned right now. The bond is not ripe, so there is no hurry, and none of this is your fault. Keep yourself warm, and do not let this sadness make you forget to love yourself.

Advice: Shift your attention for now to things that make you happy, and give your heart time to warm up again.

About an ex

Late winter is when hearts easily ache for the past, especially when alone. The lot reminds you that missing someone in a cold moment is not necessarily reason enough to go back. Whether you later reconnect or let go, choose when your heart is warm, not while you are shivering.

Advice: Do not contact your ex on your loneliest nights; call a friend instead.

Marriage plans

The bare branch has not yet budded; wedding plans are not quite favorable right now. It may be circumstances, finances, or one person's readiness. A bond that is not ripe is not a bond that will fail; spring will come.

Advice: Postpone big decisions for now and focus on keeping your current relationship warm.

AdviceTake good care of yourself, spring won't forget to knock.