Lot 19: Yellow Leaves by the Porch

Readings by situation

Single

Yellow leaves fall by the porch while the one far away has not returned: you may be waiting for a match whose shape is still unclear. There is nothing wrong with waiting, but do not let it steal your joy in life. The person who comes will see you at your most radiant when you are living fully.

Advice: Plan something you enjoy for every weekend so your single days are truly fun.

In a relationship

Some kind of distance leaves you longing, even though your partner is still by your side. They may be busy, or the two of you may rarely have deep talks. The lot advises you to voice your wishes instead of silently waiting for them to understand.

Advice: Tell your partner clearly one specific thing you wish the two of you did together more often.

Secret crush

You are standing on the porch waiting for someone who may or may not turn your way. The lot does not say that person will not come; it only reminds you not to mope and forget to take care of your own life. Your joy is the very lamp that can guide someone to you.

Advice: Set yourself a time limit for waiting, and keep living happily in the meantime.

About an ex

Autumn softly asks whether the one far away has come home, and perhaps you are asking the same about your ex. If they return, welcome them with a clear head, not just with longing. If they do not, living joyfully on your own is the gentlest way to let go.

Advice: Stop counting the days waiting for news from your ex and pour your energy into a personal goal this month.

Marriage plans

Wedding plans are in a waiting phase, perhaps waiting for one person to be ready or for circumstances to improve. The lot is not unfavorable; it only reminds you not to let waiting turn into gloom. While you wait, keep strengthening the happiness you already have.

Advice: Gently ask your partner about their plans and agree together on a clearer timeframe.

AdviceEnjoy the present, because your joy is the lamp that guides people home.