Lot 15: A Flower Out of Season

Readings by situation

Single

Flowers blooming out of season are easily hurt by cold winds, so the lot reminds you not to say yes to someone who is not quite right just because you fear being alone. A bond that is not ripe is not a bond that does not exist; your season simply has not come yet. Love yourself first, and the flower will bloom at the right time.

Advice: If you are unsure about someone, give yourself more time instead of agreeing just because you do not want to be alone.

In a relationship

A few big decisions should not be rushed, such as moving in together or making promises too soon. Your relationship needs more time to grow naturally. Flowers are brightest in their proper season, so let things move at their own pace.

Advice: Postpone big decisions for at least a few months and focus on understanding each other in small daily things.

Secret crush

Confessing now might be like a flower opening before the spring sun arrives. That person is not yet ready to receive it, and you might feel let down. It is not the time yet, so do not be troubled; keep those feelings tenderly in your heart.

Advice: Hold off on confessing for now and give that care to yourself and the people who already love you.

About an ex

If you want to go back because you feel empty, the lot reminds you that this may be a flower blooming out of season. The old bond may not have ripened again, and rushing now could hurt you both more. Love yourself first, and decide once your heart is at peace.

Advice: Wait until you can think of your ex without a sharp ache, then consider whether to return or fully let go.

Marriage plans

Flowers out of season are a reminder that the time for marriage has not yet come. One of you may not be ready, or outside pressure may be pushing you. When the bond is not ripe, rushing into a wedding can leave you disappointed; waiting a little will make it brighter.

Advice: Gently tell your families that you need more time, and set yourselves a check-in point one year from now.

AdviceFlowers are brightest in their own time, so be patient with yourself.